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A Gay Travel Cultural Tour through Vietnam and Cambodia, with Extension to Laos
Our friendly gay group will visit several regions of lush and historic Vietnam, as well as Cambodia’s mystical Angkor Wat. Explore the Paris-inspired architecture of Hanoi, sail in a junk on Halong Bay, relax on a tour of the Mekong River delta, and wander among ancient temples and ruins reclaimed by the jungle, all while lodging in deluxe hotels that reflect the character of their surroundings. Join our optional extension to beautiful Luang Prabang, Laos.
A special thanks to Ernest Monceaux and Ivan H. for sharing beautiful photos from their 2015 vacation.
For those with some extra time, join our extension to the magical city of Luang Prabang, Laos.
When you join our Splendors of Southeast Asia tour, you are embarking on a journey of the spirit. It is a personal discovery of a diverse and culturally rich area of the world. Fascinating religious artworks, regional customs distilled from centuries-old traditions, as well as exotic music and dance will spark your imagination. Step inside ancient stone temples and luxurious, colorful palaces. The natural spires of Halong Bay and the rambling jungles of Cambodia will remind you how far you’ve traveled.
We’ll feast on French-inspired Vietnamese cuisine in Hanoi, relax on China Beach, meet friendly locals in Cambodian villages, and spend our nights in some of the finest accommodations in the region. This is the perfect journey for anyone who wishes to explore the diverse cultures of Southeast Asia and rejuvenate.
For those with extra time to spend in Asia, we offer a four-day post-tour extension to Luang Prabang, Laos – see Extension tab for details.
Day 1: Arrival in Hanoi
North American travelers will cross the International Dateline, so will need to leave home one or two days before the first tour day. Many flights arrive in Hanoi in the late evening, so nothing is planned for Day 1 other than a good night’s sleep at our grand hotel. In Hanoi we will stay at the Hotel Sofitel Legend Metropole. This distinctive hotel, well situated in the heart of the city, was renovated in 2001 to celebrate its 100th anniversary. If you arrive early enough for dinner, you will find a wide selection of cuisines available in this cosmopolitan capital city.
For anyone who arrives for the gay Vietnam tour a day or two early, we will arrange an optional cooking class. This is a special treat as we join one of Hanoi’s accomplished chefs for a visit to the nearby market to select items for the day’s meals. We then return to the restaurant kitchen to see how all of these fruits, vegetables, meat and spices come together to create the special dishes for which Vietnam is known. This feast will then be our lunch!
Day 2: Hanoi Touring
After breakfast, we will devote the day to touring the city and learning of Ho Chi Minh’s heritage. The Paris-inspired gem of Hanoi is resplendent with classic French colonial architecture, lovely city parks, art studios and fine cuisine.
During our tour we will visit the Temple of Literature, dedicated to Confucious and scholarly study. We will visit Ho Chi Minh’s Mausoleum, where lines of respectful admirers and curious visitors wait to view his remains. We will also leave the bustle of the city to visit West Lake and see the gentle lines of the Tran Quoc Buddhist Pagoda, a 1,400-year-old pagoda that was moved to this location over a century ago when the terrain of its original location became unstable. Lunch will be at a unique Hanoi restaurant.
After lunch we will ride by Vespa through the small city streets of Hanoi’s Old Quarter to the Ngoc Son Temple on a small island in picturesque Hoan Kiem Lake. We will then return to our hotel for a short rest then meet up again to attend Hanoi’s famous water puppet theater and have our welcome dinner.
Day 3: Overnight on a Halong Bay Junk!
This morning we will drive four hours east from Hanoi to Halong Bay, where thousands of huge limestone outcroppings jut above the water creating a serene and surreal world of water and stone. We’ll spend the afternoon and overnight in a traditional Chinese junk to cruise the bay. Let’s pause to explore some of the smaller islands by swimming, kayaking or walking, and enjoy our meals on board.
Those who want to get a different perspective on Vietnamese cuisine can join the chef’s cooking demonstration. We’ll spend tonight being pampered by our crew.
Day 4: Halong Bay to Hue
In the morning you can awaken with a Tai Chi session on the deck of our boat in the dawn’s early light. After a leisurely morning, we will disembark. We’ll transfer to Hanoi then enjoy lunch at a local restaurant before heading to the airport for an early evening flight to Hue, where we will transfer to our lovely colonial-era riverside hotel for a two-night stay. Dinner will be on your own tonight.
Day 5: Hue Touring
We start our day with a short bike ride (with cyclo taxi ride available for those prefer it) to Kim Long Village, 4 miles from the center of Hue. Here we will see the traditional houses and gardens that reflect an ancient way of life in this community, and have lunch in one of the homes. In the afternoon we will pause for a tea break then visit the Thien Mu Pagoda. Food will continue to be a theme of the day as we close out the day with dinner at a Vietnamese-French restaurant in an historic building near the Forbidden City.
Day 6: Hue Citadel, then to Hoi An via Danang
Before departing Hue we will explore the Citadel from which the Nguyen Dynasty (1802-1945) emperors once ruled a large empire, along with mausoleums honoring two of the emperors. After lunch we will drive south to Danang via the scenic Hai Van Pass of the coastal mountains, with tremendous views up and down the coast. In Danang we will make a short visit to the Cham Museum showcasing 1000-year-old sculptures from the Hindu Champa Kingdom.
We finish the day in Hoi An, where we check into our beachfront hotel and have dinner at a nearby restaurant with a peaceful garden setting.
Day 7: My Son and Hoi An Touring
This morning we will drive about an hour inland to the My Son Sanctuary to explore the remains of the Hindu Temples of the Champa Kingdom that have survived a millennium. Some have been partially restored, but unfortunately others were sad casualties of the 1970s war when Viet Cong soldiers hid among the irreplaceable monuments of the past – and American planes bombed the Viet Cong positions.
We will return to Hoi An for lunch will be in a restored colonial building along the riverside. After lunch we will tour Hoi An’s Old Quarter to see some of the 850 well-preserved buildings from this historic mercantile town where traders from as far as China, Japan, India and Europe once exchanged goods. One stop will be at a lantern-making cottage where we will even learn how to make our own lanterns.
We return to our hotel in the late afternoon, with the evening and dinner on your own to explore our resort.
Day 8: Hoi An at Leisure
Today we are more than half done with our trip, and we will take our time to rest and relax while enjoying our waterfront hotel. Lunch and Dinner are independent, but we’ll make recommendations for excellent nearby spots where you can enjoy your free time!
Day 9: Hoi An to Ho Chi Minh City (Saigon)
After breakfast we will transfer to Danang Airport (affectionately referred to as DAD airport), then board our flight to Ho Chi Minh City, the contemporary name of the historic city that even Vietnamese are again calling Saigon. Upon arrival we’ll transfer to our hotel home for the next two nights in the heart of the city.
This afternoon we will explore Saigon’s Colonial Residential Quarter and the Cho Lon district with its Chinese heritage, including the Thien Hau Pagoda and the Binh Tay Market. We’ll enjoy a casual dinner out on the town together.
Day 10: Ho Chi Minh City (Saigon) and Mekong Delta Touring
Today we get an early start and quickly leave behind the urban landscape of Ho Chi Minh City as we drive toward the Mekong Delta city of My Tho. There we will board a boat and cruise past the islands, orchards and villages that have built up over the centuries where the Mekong River flows gently into the sea. Later we switch from boat to horse-drawn cart to visit small villages that feature traditional handicrafts of the region. We’ll also stop at a bee farm and for good measure a coconut candy factory.
Lunch will be a special treat today, with a vegetarian meal at the Phuoc Long Pagoda. While there we will also receive an introduction to meditation by a Buddhist monk. The “grand finale” of the Vietnam portion of our tour will be a performance of the A O Acrobats, who mix traditional acrobatics with contemporary design to tell the story of traditional village life in southern Vietnam.
Dinner will be on our own tonight, either before or after the show, depending on show time. You can try one of the Italian restaurants for a break from Asian food, or look for one of the fine French Vietnamese cafes popular with locals.
Day 11: On to Cambodia!
In the morning we transfer to the airport for our flight to Cambodia. After arriving at the Siem Reap airport, we will transfer to our unique hotel that captures the Cambodian spirit. This five-star resort will be our home for the next three days, and offers a variety of services and amenities (including spa treatments) which you may want to indulge in during your stay.
In the afternoon we will begin our exploration of the vast Angkor Wat complex of building and temples. We’ll start with Angkor Thom, an imposing stone edifice with fifty-four towers, each carved with the four faces of the Bodhisattva. We’ll tour the Terrace of the Elephants and the Khmer Royal Palace. One highlight will be a visit to Ta Phrom Temple. Virtually untouched by man, it seems to be held hostage by the trees, and is a reminder of the precariousness of nature.
Day 12: Angkor Wat
This morning we board remok’s (tuk-tuk’s) and ride to the main temple of Angkor Wat, where we will learn why this is considered one of the most important monuments in the world.
We’ll have lunch nearby then visit the Temple of Bantey Srey, “the citadel of women”. During our excursion, we will also visit the center of golden silk production.
Tonight we will see the Cambodian take on both rock music and acrobatics at the Phare Cambodian Circus Show, known for its passionate young acrobats and musicians, and their sense of humor during their performances.
Day 13: Lake Tonle Sap
On our last day in Cambodia we’ll take a break from temple hopping to visit Lake Tonle Sap, a tributary of the Mekong River. For most of the year, the Tonle Sap flows into the Mekong, but during the larger river’s flood times in the summer, the water of the Tonle Sap actually reverses direction, to absorb some of the floodwaters. And depending on the level of the water, local people live in homes on stilts above the lake or on the ground when the water level is low.
The charming lakeside fishing villages such as Kampong Kleang are a bridge between primitive life and modern ways. Peek into one of the boat homes and you may see the blue image of a television screen, blue because the auto batteries on which they run their power may not have enough energy to generate full color! We will see how the villagers live, then take a small boat to view the flooded forest.
In the afternoon we will visit the National Museum then stroll through the busy market and see an artists studio. We will finish the day with our Farewell Dinner celebration on our last night in Cambodia.
Day 14: Start Journey Home or Begin Laos Extension
Those not on our extension will transfer to the Siem Reap airport for flights home or to Bangkok or Hong Kong or elsewhere in the region. Please let us know if you would like assistance for additional travel.
If you are joining our Luang Prabang extension, we will fly directly from Siem Reap to Luang Prabang today. This will be either on a non-stop flight or with a change of planes in Bangkok, depending on flights available that day. See the next section for details about our stay in Luang Prabang.
Whether you’re joining the extension, flying home, or perhaps taking a few extra days in Asia, wherever you travel next, bon voyage!
Day 14: Arrival in Luang Prabang
After the flight from Siem Reap our Laos Extension participants will start our exploration of the capital today from the comfort of our deluxe hotel in a restored building that combines French colonial charm with a contemporary style. We’ll enjoy the splendors of Luang Prabang, the ancient capital of the Lan Xang Kingdom, the “Land of a Million Elephants.” We’ll spend three nights here, allowing plenty of time to leisurely explore the area.
Day 15: Laos Extension: Mekong River and Caves
Today’s touring starts with Luang Prabang’s Vat Xieng Thong Temple, that is known for its intricately carved woodwork and Buddhist figurines. This is where Laotian kings were traditionally crowned.
Next we’ll take a boat trip upstream on the Mekong River where we can see the verdant hills and small villages during our cruise to the renowned caves of Tham Ting and Pak Ou, which house hundreds of Buddha statues. Lunch will be nearby, then we will travel by vehicle back to our hotel, with a stop in a rice wine-producing village.
Day 16: Laos Waterfalls & Hills
A highlight this morning will be a visit to Wat Visoun that features a famous stupa dating to the 15th century, as well as displays of Buddhist art from around the country. We will then drive out of town to the picturesque Kuangsi Waterfall, consisting of several levels of falls with inviting pools in between. Later we will visit villages of the ‘H’mong and Khmu hill tribes.
In the afternoon we will climb up Phousi Hill for a panoramic view of Luang Prabang and its surrounding countryside. Dinner will be on your own tonight. For those with an interest in traditional Lao culture, we encourage you to attend a performance of the Royal Ballet Theatre. These unique story-telling dances have been performed here for centuries.
Day 17: Departure to Home from Laos Extension
Laos Extension participants will depart for home today. Transfers will be provided to the Luang Prabang airport based on flight time. For those with flights later in the day, we will offer explore more of Luang Prabang together this morning.
Early risers can start acclimating to the time back home, by stepping out at dawn to view the procession of the monks who leave their pagodas to walk barefoot around the city and collect alms. Later in the morning we will venture a short distance outside of town to the riverside Elephant Village, where we will have a chance for a brief elephant ride. Afterward we will head to the airport for afternoon flights. Bon voyage!
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$TBA per person in a shared room.
Price includes: All ground transportation within Southeast Asia as outlined in tour itinerary; Three flights (Hanoi-Hue, Danang-Saigon, Saigon-Siem Reap); Airport taxes and service fees for included flights; Transfers between airports and hotels; Deluxe and first-class hotels each night; 13 breakfasts, 10 lunches and 6 dinners, including wine at Welcome and Farewell dinners; Visas for Vietnam and Cambodia; All hotel service charges, government taxes, porterage, and gratuities for drivers and included meals. HE Travel provides complimentary Medical & Evacuation Insurance for every US Resident on our group tours who does not have other coverage.
Not included: Transportation to and from starting and ending points; Four passport photos that are required for visas and Angkor Wat permits; Departure tax when traveling independently of the group; Meals not shown as included in program; Gratuities for guides and HE Travel tour director; Personal items including: alcoholic beverages, snacks, laundry, and telephone calls.
Optional Tour Choices:
$TBA Single Supplement (for solo travelers who wish to enjoy a private bedroom and bathroom)
$TBA per person in shared room
$TBA in single room
Price Includes: Flight from Siem Reap, Cambodia, to Luang Prabang, Laos; Airport taxes and service fees for included flight; Transfers between airport and hotel; three hotel nights; and daily guided tours.
“Everyday was a new adventure, with an unexpected twist. The group was compact, yet cohesive and congenial. Accommodations were luxurious. A nice pace to each day.” – Joseph W., New York, NY
“Southeast Asia was simply splendiforous and HE Travel mixed the right amount of culture with luxurious accommodations.” – Larry Pulliam, San Francisco, CA
“I was amazed at the diversity between the different cultures of the three countries!” – Mike Kensington, Ontario
“The tour was a wonderful mixture of upscale lodgings and views of authentic life in each country” – Dan Phillips, New York, NY
Most of our trips draw more single travelers than couples. When couples do join us, it’s usually because they’re looking forward to interacting with a gay group; if they wanted a holiday by themselves, they wouldn’t have signed up to travel with us. Furthermore, the activities included with our trips serve as natural ice-breakers. Within a day, you’ll be traveling with friends. You don’t need to pay the single supplement if you’re traveling alone. We’ll be happy to match you with a roommate. Pay the single supplement only if you want a bedroom to yourself.
For selected trips, including cruises, we will charge half the single supplement if you request a roommate but we can’t match you with someone.
This tour starts in Hanoi, Vietnam and ends in Siem Reap, Cambodia (or Luang Prabang, Laos on the extension).
For details on daily activities, see the Itinerary Tab
27 Feb 2018, Tue, Day 1: Arrive in Hanoi, Vietnam (airport code: . Many flights arrive in the late evening, so we will rest and meet the group the following morning. Hotel in Hanoi.
28 Feb 2018, Wed, Day 2: Tour of Hanoi, Welcome Dinner. Hotel in Hanoi.
01 Mar 2018, Thu, Day 3: Travel to Halong Bay. Overnight aboard a traditional Chinese junk.
02 Feb 2018, Fri, Day 4: Leave Halong Bay and fly to Hue. Hotel in Hue.
03 Feb 2018, Sat, Day 5: Tour of Hue. Hotel in Hue.
04 Feb 2018, Sun, Day 6: Leave Hanoi and drive to Hotel in Hoi An.
05 Feb 2018, Mon, Day 7: Tour Hoi An. Hotel in Hoi An.
06 Mar 2018, Tue, Day 8: Free day in Hoi An. Hotel in Hoi An.
07 Mar 2018, Wed, Day 9: Leave Hoi An and fly to Ho Chi Minh City (Saigon). Hotel in Saigon.
08 Mar 2018, Thu, Day 10: Leave Ho Chi Minh City and drive toward Mekong Delta city of My Tho for a cruise. Hotel in Saigon.
09 Mar 2018, Fri, Day 11: Fly to Cambodia. Hotel in Siem Reap.
10 Mar 2018, Sat, Day 12: Tour sites around Siem Reap. Hotel in Siem Riep.
11 Mar 2018, Sun, Day 13: Tour sites around Siem Reap. Farewell Dinner. Hotel in Siem Riep.
12 Mar 2018, Mon, Day 14: End of Main Tour, Departure Day. Flights may be arranged any time today.
For details on daily activities, see the Extension Tab
12 Mar 2018, Mon, Day 13: Fly to Luang Prabang, Laos. Hotel in Luang Prabang.
13 Mar 2018, Tue, Day 14: Tour sites around Luang Prabang. Hotel in Luang Prabang.
14 Mar 2018, Wed, Day 15: Tour sites around Luang Prabang. Hotel in Luang Prabang.
15 Mar 2018, Thu, Day 16: End of Laos Extension. Departure Day. No group activities. Flights may be arranged any time today.
To fully enjoy this tour, one should be able to walk on uneven surfaces at historic sites and be comfortable with weather ranging from warm and humid on the coast to chillier days at higher elevations.
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