Splendors of Southeast Asia Gay Cultural Tour

cruising halong bay on a junk on the HE Travel gay cultural tour of vietnam

 2021  Dates Coming Soon

A Gay Travel Cultural Tour through Vietnam and Cambodia, with a Pretour to Bangkok and Extension to Laos

Physical Challenge:

Our friendly gay group will visit several regions of lush and historic Vietnam, as well as Cambodia’s mystical Angkor Wat. Explore the Paris-inspired architecture of Hanoi, sail in a junk on Halong Bay, relax on a tour of the Mekong River delta, and wander among ancient temples and ruins reclaimed by the jungle, all while lodging in deluxe hotels that reflect the character of their surroundings. Join our optional extension to beautiful Luang Prabang, Laos.

A special thanks to Ernest Monceaux and Ivan H. for sharing beautiful photos from their 2015 vacation.


  • Ride a tuk-tuk motorized cart through the tree-lined streets of Hanoi.
  • Learn about Vietnamese cuisine with a visit to a local market and kitchen visit with a top chef.
  • Relax for a night in a Chinese junk on Halong Bay among the camelback rock spires.
  • Experience the excitement of Saigon (Ho Chi Minh City), then cruise past the small villages of the Mekong Delta.
  • Explore the Lost Kingdom of Angkor Wat and its magical temples.
  • Unwind in world-class accommodations after each day of touring.

For those with some extra time, join our extension to the magical city of Luang Prabang, Laos.

Explore Two Fascinating Cultures

When you join our Splendors of Southeast Asia tour, you are embarking on a journey of the spirit. It is a personal discovery of a diverse and culturally rich area of the world. Fascinating religious artworks, regional customs distilled from centuries-old traditions, as well as exotic music and dance will spark your imagination. Step inside ancient stone temples and luxurious, colorful palaces. The natural spires of Halong Bay and the rambling jungles of Cambodia will remind you how far you’ve traveled.

We’ll feast on French-inspired Vietnamese cuisine in Hanoi, relax on China Beach, meet friendly locals in Cambodian villages, and spend our nights in some of the finest accommodations in the region. This is the perfect journey for anyone who wishes to explore the diverse cultures of Southeast Asia and rejuvenate.

For those with extra time to spend in Asia, we offer a four-day post-tour extension to Luang Prabang, Laos – see Extension tab for details.



Day 1: Arrival in Hanoi

cafe at hotel metropole on the HE Travel gay cultural tour of vietnam

North American travelers will cross the International Dateline, so you will need to leave home one or two days before the first tour day. Many flights arrive in Hanoi in the late evening, so nothing is planned for Day 1 other than a good night’s sleep at our grand hotel. In Hanoi, we will stay at the Hotel Sofitel Legend Metropole. This distinctive hotel, well situated in the heart of the city, was renovated in 2001 to celebrate its 100th anniversary. If you arrive early enough for dinner, you will find a wide selection of cuisines available in this cosmopolitan capital city.

delicious vietnamese cuisine on the HE Travel gay cultural tour of southeast asia

For anyone who arrives for the gay Vietnam tour a day or two early, we will arrange an optional cooking class. This is a special treat as we join one of Hanoi’s accomplished chefs for a visit to the nearby market to select items for the day’s meals. We then return to the restaurant kitchen to see how all of these fruits, vegetables, meat, and spices come together to create the special dishes for which Vietnam is known. This feast will then be our lunch!


Day 2: Hanoi Touring

Confucius' temple on the HE Travel gay cultural tour of vietnam

After breakfast, we will devote the day to touring the city and learning of Ho Chi Minh’s heritage. The Paris-inspired gem of Hanoi is resplendent with classic French colonial architecture, lovely city parks, art studios, and fine cuisine.

tran quoc pagoda on the HE Travel gay cultural tour of vietnam

During our tour, we will visit the Temple of Literature, dedicated to Confucious and scholarly study. We will visit Ho Chi Minh’s Mausoleum, where lines of respectful admirers and curious visitors wait to view his remains. We will also leave the bustle of the city to visit West Lake and see the gentle lines of the Tran Quoc Buddhist Pagoda, a 1,400-year-old pagoda that was moved to this location over a century ago when the terrain of its original location became unstable. Lunch will be at a unique Hanoi restaurant.

water puppet theater on the HE Travel gay cultural tour of vietnam

After lunch, we will ride by Vespa through the small city streets of Hanoi’s Old Quarter to the Ngoc Son Temple on a small island in picturesque Hoan Kiem Lake. We will then return to our hotel for a short rest then meet up again to have our welcome dinner.


Day 3: Overnight on a Halong Bay Junk!

cruising halong bay on a junk on the HE Travel gay cultural tour of vietnam

This morning we will drive four hours east from Hanoi to Halong Bay, where thousands of huge limestone outcroppings jut above the water creating a serene and surreal world of water and stone. We’ll spend the afternoon and overnight in a traditional Chinese junk to cruise the bay. Let’s pause to explore some of the smaller islands by swimming, kayaking or walking, and enjoy our meals onboard.

shrimp rolls on the HE Travel gay cultural tour of vietnam

Those who want to get a different perspective on Vietnamese cuisine can join the chef’s cooking demonstration. We’ll spend tonight being pampered by our crew.


Day 4: Halong Bay to Hanoi


In the morning you can awaken with a Tai Chi session on the deck of our boat in the dawn’s early light. Our junk will resume course this morning and we will be lucky enough to stop and visit a natural cave. Once back on dry land, we’ll drive to Hanoi, making a stop in Yen Duc Village to visit the pagoda and walk around the village. We will enjoy lunch at a local restaurant and then visit DongHo painting village, which is considered a fine reflection of the traditional aesthetic values and humanitarian desires. On arrival back to Hanoi, we will attend Hanoi’s famous water puppet theater and a fabulous dinner.


Day 5: Hanoi to Hue

tai chi on halong bay on the HE Travel gay cultural tour of vietnam

Enjoy a relaxing breakfast and morning before we head to the airport for an afternoon flight to Hue, where we will transfer to our lovely colonial-era riverside hotel for a two-night stay. This evening we will enjoy a scenic rickshaw ride through the streets of the old city. Tonight you will feel like a local as we enjoy our foodie tour.


Day 6: Hue Touring

bickers on a path on the HE Travel gay cultural tour of vietnam

We start our day with a short bike ride (with cyclo taxi ride available for those prefer it) to Kim Long Village, 4 miles from the center of Hue. Here we will see the traditional houses and gardens that reflect an ancient way of life in this community, and have lunch in one of the homes. In the afternoon we will pause for a tea break then visit the Thien Mu Pagoda. Food will continue to be a theme of the day as we close out the day with dinner at a Vietnamese-French restaurant in a historic building near the Forbidden City.


Day 7: Hue Citadel, then to Hoi An via Danang

lovely flowers on the HE Travel gay cultural tour of vietnam

Before departing Hue we will explore the Citadel from which the Nguyen Dynasty (1802-1945) emperors once ruled a large empire, along with mausoleums honoring two of the emperors. After lunch, we will drive south to Danang via the scenic Hai Van Pass of the coastal mountains, with tremendous views up and down the coast. In Danang, we will make a short visit to the Cham Museum showcasing 1000-year-old sculptures from the Hindu Champa Kingdom.

We finish the day in Hoi An, where we check into our beachfront hotel and have dinner at a nearby restaurant with a peaceful garden setting.


Day 8: My Son and Hoi An Touring

learn to make lanterns on the HE Travel gay cultural tour of vietnam

This morning we will drive about an hour inland to the My Son Sanctuary to explore the remains of the Hindu Temples of the Champa Kingdom that have survived a millennium. Some have been partially restored, but unfortunately, others were sad casualties of the 1970s war when Viet Cong soldiers hid among the irreplaceable monuments of the past – and American planes bombed the Viet Cong positions.

We will return to Hoi An for lunch will be in a restored colonial building along the riverside. After lunch, we will tour Hoi An’s Old Quarter to see some of the 850 well-preserved buildings from this historic mercantile town where traders from as far as China, Japan, India, and Europe once exchanged goods. One-stop will be at a lantern-making cottage where we will even learn how to make our own lanterns.

We return to our hotel in the late afternoon, with the evening and dinner on your own to explore our resort.


Day 9: Hoi An Cooking Class / Afternoon at Leisure

refreshing lunch at cafe on the HE Travel gay tour of Vietnam and Cambodia

Today we are more than halfway through our trip, and we will take our time to rest and relax while enjoying our waterfront hotel this afternoon. But first, we will enjoy a cooking class with Streets International Association followed by lunch. Then the rest of the day is yours to enjoy.


Day 10: Hoi An to Ho Chi Minh City (Saigon)

roof tiles on the HE Travel gay cultural tour of vietnam

After breakfast and leisurely morning, we will transfer to Danang Airport (affectionately referred to as DAD airport), then board our flight to Ho Chi Minh City, the contemporary name of the historic city that even Vietnamese are again calling Saigon. Upon arrival, we’ll transfer to our hotel home for the next two nights in the heart of the city.

This afternoon we will explore Saigon’s Colonial Residential Quarter, visit the War Museum and the Cho Lon district with its Chinese heritage, including the Thien Hau Pagoda and the Binh Tay Market. We’ll enjoy a casual dinner out on the town together.


Day 11: Ho Chi Minh City (Saigon) and Mekong Delta Touring

boats on the mekong delta on the HE Travel gay cultural tour of vietnam

Today we get an early start and quickly leave behind the urban landscape of Ho Chi Minh City as we drive toward the Mekong Delta city of My Tho. There we will board a boat and cruise past the islands, orchards, and villages that have built up over the centuries where the Mekong River flows gently into the sea. Later we switch from boat to horse-drawn cart to visit small villages that feature traditional handicrafts of the region. We’ll also stop at a coconut candy workshop and discover the process of delicious dried coconut.

After lunch, we will enjoy the “grand finale” of the Vietnam portion of our tour will be a performance of the AO Acrobats, who mix traditional acrobatics with contemporary design to tell the story of traditional village life in southern Vietnam.

modern acrobats on the HE Travel gay cultural tour of vietnam

Dinner will be on our own tonight, either before or after the show, depending on showtime. You can try an Italian restaurant for a break from Asian food, or look for one of the fine French Vietnamese cafes popular with locals.


Day 12: Saigon then on to Cambodia!

reflections of angkor wat on the HE Travel gay cultural tour of cambodia

After breakfast, we will head out to one of the most dramatic sites in the history of the Vietnam War: Cu Chi Tunnels. This underground city is an immense network of connecting underground tunnels, which are just a small portion of the massive tunnel network that underlies much of the country. For lunch, we will head back to Ho Chi Minh City.

This afternoon we will explore the old colonial residential quarters, including the contemporary Reunification Palace and the 19th century Notre-Dame Cathedral. This evening we will transfer to the airport for our flight to Cambodia. After arriving at the Siem Reap airport, we will transfer to our unique hotel that captures the Cambodian spirit. This five-star resort will be our home for the next three days and offers a variety of services and amenities (including spa treatments) which you may want to indulge in during your stay.


Day 13: Angkor Wat

the jungle takes over the temple on the HE Travel gay cultural tour of cambodia

This morning we will begin our exploration of the vast Angkor Wat complex of buildings and temples by visiting Angkor Wat itself. This monument was built in the 12th century and is dedicated to the Hindu god Vishnu. It is considered one of the masterpieces of the Khmer architectural style.

We’ll have lunch nearby then visit the Temple of Bantey Srey, “the citadel of women”. Then we will drive back to Siem Reap through the Cambodian countryside with a stop to visit the amazingly restored Bantey Samre Temple.

young men performing acrobatics on the HE Travel gay cultural tour of cambodia

Tonight we will see the Cambodian take on both rock music and acrobatics at the Phare Cambodian Circus Show, known for its passionate young acrobats and musicians, and their sense of humor during their performances.


Day 14: Angkor Thom and Ta Phrom Temples

On our last day in Cambodia, we’ll visit the ancient capital of Angkor Thom by “rem ok” (motorcycle trailer). Here we will view the famous Bayon Temple, once surrounded by 54 towers. Next to explore is Baphuon, which has been fully restored by a team of French archaeologists, taking over 16 years to complete.

After lunch, we will visit the Ta Phrom Temple, which is still surrounded by jungle. Then stroll through the busy market and see an artist’s studio. We will finish the day with our Farewell Dinner celebration on our last night in Cambodia.


Day 15: Lake Tonle Sap then Start Journey Home or Begin Laos Extension

cruising the tonle sap river on the HE Travel gay cultural tour of cambodia

This morning we will drive outside Siem Reap to see the lakeside communities of Lake Tonle Sap. From the village of Kompong Khleang, we will take a small boat to see the small fishing communities around the lake, and the stilt houses that keep families above the highest water levels but require climbing up to 3 stories above the water during the dry season (January through May). From Lake Tonle Sap we will return to our hotel to collect our bags and check out.

Those not on our extension will transfer to the Siem Reap airport for flights home or to Bangkok or Hong Kong or elsewhere in the region. Please let us know if you would like assistance with additional travel.

If you are joining our Luang Prabang extension, we will fly directly from Siem Reap to Luang Prabang today. This will be either on a non-stop flight or with a change of planes in Bangkok, depending on flights available that day. See the next section for details about our stay in Luang Prabang.

Whether you’re joining the extension, flying home, or perhaps taking a few extra days in Asia, wherever you travel next, bon voyage!


Arrive early and join us in Bangkok: TBA

Day 1: Arrival


Welcome to Bangkok! This afternoon we will enjoy a 60-minute Thai massage to help you relax after your long travels. Then tonight we will enjoy our Welcome Dinner.


Day 2: New Year’s Eve in Bangkok


This morning we will visit the spectacular Grand Palace, a re-creation of the Temple of Ayutthaya. Enjoy the beautiful architecture and intricate details that are surrounded by large walls. Next, we will enjoy some time at the Temple of the Emerald Buddha(Wat Phra Kaew*), including it’s jade Buddha statue! We will make time to also visit the Hall of the Throne, State Reception Hall, and the Coronation Hall. Then we will top off our afternoon with a final visit to Wat Pho, where the famous Reclining Buddha lies.

This evening we will enjoy a New Year’s Eve cruise including a pre-dinner cocktail reception with dinner and fireworks to follow!

*Clothing: For religious reasons, women must have their shoulders covered and cannot wear shorts or mini-skirts. Shoes must be removed before entering the Emerald Buddha Temple and sandals are not permitted. 


Day 3: City Tour

Enjoy your free morning after celebrating the New Year. This afternoon we will enjoy a visit to the Jim Thompson House, the home of James H. W. Thompson, a self-made American entrepreneur. He was the founder of the world-renowned Thompson Thai Silk Company. This Thai house has an intensive collection of art and antique items. Afterward, we will head to Khrua, a nearby Thai silk weavers village.

Tonight we will enjoy a wonderful dinner with drinks before heading off to Hanoi tomorrow.


Day 4: Off to Hanoi

Today we will depart to join the main tour in Hanoi.


Stay longer and join our Laos Extension: TBA

Day 15: Arrival in Luang Prabang

finely woven textiles on the HE Travel gay cultural tour of southeast asia

After the flight from Siem Reap our Laos Extension participants will start our exploration of the capital today from the comfort of our deluxe hotel in a restored building that combines French colonial charm with a contemporary style. We’ll enjoy the splendors of Luang Prabang, the ancient capital of the Lan Xang Kingdom, the “Land of a Million Elephants.” We’ll spend three nights here, allowing plenty of time to leisurely explore the area.


Day 16: Laos Extension: Mekong River and Caves

vat xient thong temple on the HE Travel gay cultural tour of laos

Today’s touring starts with Luang Prabang’s Vat Xieng Thong Temple, that is known for its intricately carved woodwork and Buddhist figurines. This is where Laotian kings were traditionally crowned.

Next, we’ll take a boat trip upstream on the Mekong River where we can see the verdant hills and small villages during our cruise to the renowned cave of Pak Ou, which houses hundreds of Buddha statues. Lunch will be nearby, then we will travel by vehicle back to our hotel, with a stop in a rice wine-producing village.


Day 17: Elephant Ride, Laos Waterfalls & Hills

This morning we will head to the “Elephant Village” in the middle of a lush, green area near the banks of the Nam Khan River. Enjoy a 30-minute scenic ride along the river on an Asian Elephant.

terraced waterfalls at khuang sy on the HE Travel gay cultural tour of laos

After lunch, we will depart for the picturesque Kuangsi Waterfalls, consisting of several levels of falls with inviting pools in between. On our way back to Luang Prabang we will pass villages of the H’mong and Khmu hill tribes.

phousi hill in laos on the HE Travel gay cultural tour of southeast asia

Tonight we will enjoy our farewell dinner. For those with an interest in traditional Lao culture, we encourage you to attend a performance of the Royal Ballet Theatre. These unique story-telling dances have been performed here for centuries.


Day 18: Departure to Home from Laos Extension

monks in luang prabang on the HE Travel gay cultural tour of laos

Laos Extension participants will depart for home today, with hotel check-out by noon. Transfers will be provided to the Luang Prabang airport based on flight time.

Early risers can step out at dawn to view the procession of the monks who leave their pagodas to walk barefoot around the city and collect alms.

For those with flights later in the day, we will spend the morning visiting Wat Visoun that features a famous stupa dating to the 15th century, as well as Buddhist art from around the country. As well as That Makmo and Wat Aham, one of the main shrines of the city, dedicated to ancestors.

Afterward, we will head to the airport for afternoon flights. Bon voyage!


Splendors of Southeast Asia Main Tour Price

Price includes: All ground transportation within Southeast Asia as outlined in tour itinerary; Three flights (Hanoi-Hue, Danang-Saigon, Saigon-Siem Reap); Airport taxes and service fees for included flights; Transfers between airports and hotels; Deluxe and first-class hotels each night; 14 breakfasts, 12 lunches and 7 dinners, including wine at Welcome and Farewell dinners; Visas for Vietnam and Cambodia; All hotel service charges, government taxes, porterage, and gratuities for drivers and included meals. Services of a knowledgeable HE Travel tour host (with a minimum number of participants); HE Travel provides complimentary Medical & Evacuation Insurance for every US Resident on our group tours who does not have other coverage.

Not included: Transportation to and from starting and ending points; Four passport photos that are required for visas and Angkor Wat permits; Departure tax when traveling independently of the group; Meals not shown as included in program; Gratuities for guides and HE Travel host; Personal items including: alcoholic beverages, snacks, laundry, and telephone calls.

Optional Tour Choices:

$TBA Single Supplement (for solo travelers who wish to enjoy a private bedroom and bathroom)

Bangkok Pre-tour Price

$TBA per person in a shared room

$TBA in a single room

Price Includes: Flight from Bangkok airport to Hanoi; Airport taxes and service fees for included flight; Transfers between airport and hotel; three hotel nights; daily breakfast and three dinners; and daily guided tours.

Laos Extension Price

$TBA per person in a shared room

$TBA  in a single room

Price Includes: Flight from Siem Reap, Cambodia, to Luang Prabang, Laos; Airport taxes and service fees for included flight; Transfers between airport and hotel; three hotel nights; daily breakfast and two lunches; and daily guided tours.

“I had wanted to go on this trip for a long time. The beauty of the countries, the wonderful food, and kind, warm and friendly people made
for an unforgettable trip. The biggest surprise, only because I did not know much about it before I was actually there, was Luang Prabang,
Laos. Truly a bit of heaven on earth.” – Keith D., New York, NY

“Every day was a new adventure, with an unexpected twist. The group was compact, yet cohesive and congenial. Accommodations were luxurious. A nice pace to each day.” – Joseph W., New York, NY

“Southeast Asia was simply splendiferous and HE Travel mixed the right amount of culture with luxurious accommodations.” – Larry P., San Francisco, CA

“I was amazed at the diversity between the different cultures of the three countries!” – Mike K., Ontario

“The tour was a wonderful mixture of upscale lodgings and views of authentic life in each country” – Dan P., New York, NY

Most of our trips draw more single travelers than couples. When couples do join us, it’s usually because they’re looking forward to interacting with a gay group; if they wanted a holiday by themselves, they wouldn’t have signed up to travel with us. Furthermore, the activities included with our trips serve as natural ice-breakers. Within a day, you’ll be traveling with friends. You don’t need to pay the single supplement if you’re traveling alone. We’ll be happy to match you with a roommate. Pay the single supplement only if you want a bedroom to yourself.

For selected trips, including cruises, we will charge half the single supplement if you request a roommate but we can’t match you with someone.

This tour starts in Hanoi, Vietnam and ends in Siem Reap, Cambodia (or Luang Prabang, Laos on the extension).

Physical Challenge Level 1

To fully enjoy this tour, one should be able to walk on uneven surfaces at historic sites and be comfortable with weather ranging from warm and humid on the coast to chillier days at higher elevations.

For answers to your additional questions, please email info@hetravel.com or call 305-294-8174

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